Recently, social media has erupted with debate over a situation involving the Buffalo Bills quarterback Josh Allen and actress Hailee Steinfeld. The two started quietly dating in May 2023 and tied the knot two years later in May 2025. The controversy stemmed from the fact that Allen did not attend the Golden Globe Awards with Steinfeld, and she did not attend his recent playoff game. While the situation may seem minor, it has sparked reactions from both sides: sports fans and pop culture followers.

Allen was busy, focused on his upcoming crucial playoff matchup. Playoff games are among the most important games in an NFL player’s career, requiring intense dedication and preparation. At the same time, Steinfeld attended the Golden Globes, one of the most prestigious award shows in the entertainment industry. For actors, they gain career recognition, and their attendance is expected.

Some fans criticized Steinfeld for not being present at Allen’s playoff game, arguing that supporting a partner during such a high-stakes moment should be her priority. Others questioned why Allen didn’t attend the awards show to support Steinfeld. However, there were also a lot of people who defended the couple, pointing out that both individuals have demanding careers and schedules that sometimes require sacrifices.

The controversy has highlighted a larger issue within our society: the unrealistic expectations placed on celebrity couples. Fans project their own ideas of loyalty and support onto public figures, often forgetting that these individuals have to balance personal relationships with their careers, all under a constant spotlight. Some extreme fans need to take a reality check and realize that missing one event does not indicate a lack of support or commitment.

Ultimately, both Allen and Steinfeld were pursuing major milestones in their respective careers. People often misinterpret having separate careers as drama or conflict within a relationship. Unfortunately, the Golden Globes and playoff game landed on the same day, so they couldn’t support each other in person.

 However, Allen showed public support of Steinfeld by reposting her photos on social media, and Bill’s win got a shoutout during her time presenting an award. The debate says less about them as a couple and more about how society overreacts to situations that are none of their business to begin with.

Siena Trainor, senior editor 2025-26

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